Together for 16 years. He’s had a child with another woman that he ignores the existance of. He is terrified of commitment. Just broke it off with me after the last time he cheated because I made him go to couples therapy and finally started pushing the fact that we need to save some money for our future. In our whole time together he has acheived all his goals, obtained anything he wanted. I have nothing because he is that concerned with himself. He is currently trying to get with another single mother. He will take advantage of her until he cannot respect her anymore because of the nagging, suspicous, frail creature he will turn her into with his lies. Absolute pathalogical liar. After 16 years I’ve only discovered this because my intuition is so well honed now.