This individual is the biggest joke I have ever encountered in my life.
She used to work with my husband back in 2017. The first time I ever heard her name was the day she followed my husband home because she was incapable of finding a bar called Cruisers that everyone from night crew were going to one morning.
I asked my husband who the b***h sitting out in front of our house was and he told me, “Oh that,s some dumb girl he works with that can’t seem to figure out how to drive down 10th and take a right at the KFC.”
He also told me not to worry about it, she is married with four kids and not what he would call attractive. He described as being half his age, covered in tattoos and piercings, with a big gut and pancake a*s. Not anywhere near my husband’s type.
She quit shortly after but before she left she made a point to give my husband her number. Why my husband didn’t know. Wasn’t like they were really friends or anything. Her number laid on his desk for months untouched as he had no interest in contacting her.
Months later the joke hits him up on Facebook out of the blue. My husband being tech challenged didn’t know how to use Messenger so he made the mistake of calling her just to see how she was doing. The day this occurred also happened to be his birthday in July 2017.
She asks if the guys from work were taking him out to Cruisers and when she found out they were, she invited herself along.
My husband wasn’t there long as we had other plans. He said about half a dozen people from work showed up. They all had a beer and played some pool. Nothing out of the ordinary.
A month goes by and this joke starts texting him on a regular basis always asking if he was going to the bar. My husband didn’t think anything of it. He thought she was just a bored housewife looking to get out of the house.
My husband would hang out there with his friend a couple of times a month after work which was first thing in the morning. They would always go on a Tuesday or Thursday due to his friend’s schedule. She must have known this because Tuesday and Thursdays are the only days she would hit him up.
After telling her no a number of times, she just shows up at the bar. My husband and his friend found this weird since she showed up acting like a giddy school girl. Later we realized why.
According to my husband and his friend she would show up, have a drink, consistently b***h about how her husband. She was always complaining that he was a drunk loser, how she wants to divorce him, and how their marriage was miserable. This coming from a person who didn’t have a job who gets her kids off to school and her husband off to work so she can sit in a bar drinking first thing in the morning b******g about the man who is supporting her lazy a*s. Like I said, she is a total joke and if you ask me, she was the problem with her marriage not her husband.
My husband’s response to her complaints about her husband was to talk to him and work things out. He also told her multiple times that he was glad he was happily married and that he loved me. Something that she seemed irritated by.
Football season begins as does Fantasy Football. Like I said, my husband is a bit tech challenged so he doesn’t utilize email other than for Fantasy Football. He didn’t see the point of having email so he used an account that I had.
My husband goes to check his Fantasy Football and he sees multiple emails from the joke. He opens one and says, “What the f**k is this s**t?” He shows me the email.
She had been sending him pics of herself since the beginning of August, two weeks after his birthday. We think this is the reason she showed up acting all giddy the first time she showed at the bar because she assumed that my husband had seen the c**p she was sending.
He tells me that she had hit him up on Facebook, so he called her and she invited herself to his birthday gathering. I asked what the h**l happened on his birthday that would give her the idea that this was o.k. He said nothing happened. He hung out with people from work, had a couple of beers, and played pool. The only conversation he had with her was about her family and whether or not she found a job. I asked him to deal with it or I would. He assured me that he would.
He then proceeds to delete the rest of the emails without opening them.
Why did she email them instead of texting them to him you might ask. Well my husband had an old flip phone. Not exactly the best format for pictures.
The next time that he saw her, he told her to stop because he loved his wife.
Like I said, this was something that he had told her several times. I guess some people are just too stupid to get the hint. He said she just walked away without saying anything. This was late September.
She must of started freaking out since he rejected her and starts texting him out of her regular pattern wanting to go to the bar on days she knew his friend wouldn’t be there. He tells her no and she gives up for a couple of weeks. My husband thinks that that is the end of it and she has finally got the message.
Nope. She shows up at his work with one of her kids making some lame excuse that she was in town for an appointment. Really? The joke lived 20 minutes outside of the east side of town and my husband worked at the west end of town, another 15 to 20 minutes. I believe the joke was testing the waters to see if he would speak to her. This was October 10th.
My husband thinking that she has gotten the message speaks to her and decides to just let it go. Huge mistake on his part. He just opened the door and let the snake back in.
She goes back to texting him on Tuesdays and Thursday asking to go to the bar. She must have taken him talking to her again as a sign of hope that she had a chance. If she only knew what my husband and his friend really thought of her she would have never pursued this delusion she had created in her head.
October 25th, I check email and what do I see? Yet another email from this Joke. This time she sent nude pics of herself. Overly edited just like the one she sent before.
Just a side note, why the h**l do people edit pics to the point that it is obvious? Do you really think people don’t know what you really look like? I’m guessing the reason this joke edits her pics is because she doesn’t have a lot of confidence in how she looks and with good reason. Like my husband said, she isn’t what you would call attractive.
Did she really think that if my husband took the bait that he would want to keep the lights off so he wouldn’t see what she really looks like without clothes?
Well, I lost it. What part of a man telling her that he loves his wife doesn’t this lowlife understand? I tell my husband what the c**t had sent and the look that came over his face was like what the f**k. I ask him to respond in a way that this b***h will understand. He asked me to scroll down the page because he didn’t care to see the s**t show she sent and he responds bluntly and to the point.
He then tells me that she had been hanging out with him and his buddy at the bar again. He tells me he thought she was just being stupid before but had got the hint when he confronted her. Apparently the last time he saw her she had had to leave about 30 minutes after he got there because the school called and she had to go pick up a sick kid. He said he mostly ignored anytime she would show up because he was getting seriously tired of all the whining she did about her husband.
I went off on him. I couldn’t believe he allowed himself to associate with someone that obviously had no respect for our marriage. A mistake he will never make again.
Later, my husband leaves his phone at home when he went to work because the next day is Thursday and he knows that this joke is going to try and hit him up with some excuse and he doesn’t want to deal with it.
I am still completely p****d off and I know this s**t isn’t going to stop unless I put a stop to it. I text the b***h one word, “Hey” from my husband’s phone. I want to see how she responds. In less the one minute she does. She texts, “I’m sorry. I know what you are going to say. I can’t talk right now.” If I had been smart or should I say calm, I would have played it out and let her make a fool out of herself. Wait…she already did that by going after a married man old enough to be her father that wasn’t interested in her.
Well, I go off and call the joke. She doesn’t answer. I call again and she answers. This is at about one or two in the morning. Imagine her surprise when she finds out it’s me on the other end of the phone and not my husband.
I went off on that s**t. I think I must of called her every filthy name in the book. After I hang up she texts this long text claiming that someone must of hacked her email and how mortified she was that someone other than her husband saw her photos.
Of course the b***h doesn’t know how much I know about what had been going on. Again, she just made a fool of herself.
I go to my husband’s work and show him the text. He just rolls his eyes and tells me that she is lying through her teeth.
A month or so goes by and my husband gets this weird message again on Facebook.
Someone using a fake name claiming to be one of his friends but they spelled his friend’s name wrong. They are asking him if he is in the neighborhood. We believe that it was her checking on our relationship trying to start s**t again.
My husband goes off. He is fed up with dealing with this delusional b***h. He apparently starts sending her emails telling her what a piece of c**p she is in hopes that she finally gets the message. In the response she sent she can’t seem to understand what the difference is between him looking at her pictures and him looking at p**n other than he knows her. Really??? The stupidity of this b***h is astounding. The intent for which they were sent would be the difference. I don’t think the women that do p**n do it with the intent of s******g the men who look at their pictures.
She also tells him that yes she knows that he loves his wife because he told her she doesn’t know how many times. Again, the stupidity is astounding. Correct me if I’m wrong but if a man tells you he loves his wife, doesn’t that pretty much say that he isn’t interested?
During the course of the emails she spins a number of lies. I’m guessing she was hoping to cause problems with her lies. The biggest problem with the lies she was telling is that she assumed she knew my husband better than I did. That,s the mistake most Whores typically make.
I sent the last email and I told her that it was me sending it. I pointed out each one of her lies as well as my thoughts on her lack of character. She never responded. Imagine that.
One of the things that we heard out after all this bullshit transpired is that my husband isn’t the first man that she has pulled this s**t on. It was rumored that she did the same c**p to someone else that my husband used to work with. Apparently she had gotten really friendly with a vendor who was around my husband’s age also married with kids. If it’s true that would prove that she definitely has a type as well as some “Daddy Issues”.
Once my husband’s friends learned of what this W***e had pulled, they were floored.
They just couldn’t grasp why this joke would ever think that my husband wanted anything to do with her. They never saw any indication of any kind that would lead anyone to think this. His friend that he hung out at the bar with referred to her as gross white trailer trash and he was just blown away by the c**p that she had been pulling.
I am that the type of person that tries to give people the benefit of the doubt. But this type of behavior is something I have never been able to understand nor do I want to.
If you are interested in someone who is married, show some respect for that relationship because it’s not all about you or what you want.
I mean really, what do you think you are going to gain by interfering with or destroying a marriage? Do you honestly think that that person’s family is going to welcome you with open arms or are they going to do everything in their power to get you kicked to the curb?
I’m a true believer of what you put out in the world is what you get back in some shape or form. Maybe you lose your job, maybe you get evicted from your home, or maybe you even get hit with a lawsuit. One thing is for sure…people who pull this kind of c**p will definitely end up seeing the destruction of their own relationships.