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Date: 2:16 pm

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Joe Phal is a true blue Jeckyl and Hyde.

Joe is a charmer who preys on women. I know, I was one of them. .. Joe is a Pacific Islander, born n the small island of Yap, Micronesia and resides in the Tacoma- Seattle area. He currently works as an Aircraft maintenance mechanic. Joe loves the white girls but hates the way the American girls act and certainly didn’t mind expressing that during my long relationship with him. Joe has an assault 2 conviction against him for physically hurting me. In the time that I lived with Joe, he broke my nose, he sprained my collarbone. He strangled me and as he did, he told me that I was going to die. I almost did. He also gave me numerous bruises and cuts with swelling and would show his sorrow afterwards with coconut oil massages. He threw me out of his truck, locked me out of our house and continually screamed at me in public places. He loved to humiliate me and treat me s is dog. His family chews betel-nut and Joe liked to spit the red juice on my face and hair when angry. I lost many blouses from the red stain.

Joe can’t bend is middle left finger because he sliced the tendon with a machete while threatening to cut my throat with it. This man is a Monster!! He hides behind the Church but acts anything but Christian once you know him. If you are involved with him, please do a background check and RUN! Also contact the Island County Courthouse for transcripts of his assault trial. It’s available to anyone who ask for it and will explain the horror that I had to go through. I will also be a happy to give a blow by blow account of what happened to myself, my possessions and my family from knowing this man to anyone who cares to write to me.

During the assault trial, Joe promised to change and started going to Church but I found out a year later, that he was having an affair with a fellow Church member while letting me think that he was changing. He ended up hurting her also and called her a liar for speaking out against him when trying to tell me.

I finally got away from Joe in September 2013 when he attacked my 27 year old daughter. After that, he refused to let me get my things and trashed my furniture. He also stole personal possessions and left me in debt with payments that he said he would pay.. This man is a piece of $hit and needs to go back to Yap, Micronesia where they treat their women like subornments. (look up the documentation of abuse on Yap in an online search). I will never be quiet. I was a victim but I still have a voice. I will not let Joe live comfortably so that he can do it to someone else again.

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First Name: Joe
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Last Name: Phal
Category: Cheaters

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  1. Posted By: Michele
    Date: January 6, 2015 10:19 pm

    I dated this man for two months before I was warned of his past. I don’t know when Joe was planning to tell me the truth except maybe after I fell in love with him? Maybe never? I confronted Joe asking for the truth and he begged me to hear his side of the story. Well, there is no side of the story when hospital records and court documents validate everything that the victim says happened! In a background check, I also found out that there was another incident in Hawaii with his ex wife and the police were called to assist her. Joe can be very sweet and it’s easy to be deceived by his kindnes but it’s apparently a mask. I feel terrible writing this about Joe Phal but he shouldn’t have hurt a woman or tried to con another.

  2. Posted By: Elise
    Date: January 16, 2015 7:45 am

    This guy is very strange and very scary. We met through an online dating site but I found out immediatly after finding him that he used old photos that look nothing like him anymore. I dispise liars so I asked him why he didn’t want to post more current photos of himself and he nearly snapped my head off! ByebyeBipolar. I got up to leave and tried to give him a quick hug to be nice but he said his culture doesn’t believe in public displays of affection. What a whacko!!

  3. Posted By: Joe
    Date: January 26, 2015 10:49 am

    It is beyond immoral to destroy a person’s livelihood and make him out to be a monster on the internet. If I am truly trying to change and you are blocking that change, you are condemning me to be the same person I have always been. In short, your entry could easily be causing me to be the same person I was when I dated you instead of moving forward.

    • Posted By: The Prince
      Date: October 13, 2015 5:09 am

      I agree. It is immoral and has gone way too far. This person will not be happy until Joe kills himself. Then what will this person focus on?

  4. Posted By: Cindy
    Date: February 4, 2015 12:28 pm

    You see here that Joe admits that he is abusive but in true Joe fashion, (and so typical of a classic abuser) he blames his victim (me) for his abusive behavior. Not too surprised- Joe used to also blame me afterwards for having to beat me.

    Since leaving Joe, he’s been dumped by four women who have learned of his wicked ways, his dating profile has been deleted for covering up his assault conviction on online dating sites, his employer and co-workers have learned the details of his abusive past and disrespect him, his truck has needed towed (from work) and he has been stopped for speeding more than once and has had to pay for hefty traffic infractions. Karma is taking care of this self absorbed boy (he is not worthy of being called a man) and when the time comes, G*d will also judge and punish him accordingly.

  5. Posted By: Jon
    Date: June 10, 2015 4:17 pm

    I knew Fal before he changed his last name to Phal. We both lived in Yap back in the 90s when he was a policeman. He was a badass cop then and kicked the c**p out of one inmate who later died from broken ribs and other injuries while waiting for treatment overnight in his cell. Ask anyone who knew him then. He was hated by most and was probably why he left. I’ll bet he never told you about his past, did he? YOU ARE ONE LUCKY WOMAN TO HAVE SURVIVED HIS BEATINGS AND ESCAPE WITH YOUR LIFE.

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    Date: August 25, 2015 9:29 am

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  7. Posted By: Someone who knows Joe
    Date: October 22, 2015 12:33 pm

    Joe has a new girlfriend but he will not be able to hit her out of fear because she is as big as Joe and looks like a linebacker. She can’t hold a candle to Cindy.

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