We dated for two years, got married right after college graduation and then about four years into the marriage, I deployed. We were both Army. She was in training to also go on deployment when she started sleeping around. She had emotional meltdowns when we were able to speak about three days out of a month and at the end of one of the meltdowns is when she started cheating. We started the divorce while I was still deployed I believe so she can sleep around with members of her unit with minimal guilt. I tried very hard to keep emotions down during the deployment since it is so easy to build things up while working on a distance relationship.